There is a GOD, it finally shipped today!  Phone will be here Thursday, im just gald I dont have to sit here and check my order anymore.  I was getting really sick of it.  As for the backorder 1 and 0 thing, I dont think it means a thing.  I was on 0 all Sunday eve, and all monday.  Then today I went back to 1.  I was really upset, then I checked and I shipped out from Memphis at 2pm.  So in my estimation, the backorder 1 and 0 means nothing.  I ordered the 4th and shipped the 12th.  Looks like with shipping 10 or 11 days, so I cant complain!  Thanks for all your help guys, its been nice venting here!