Unfortunately BRIANATRPG, changing TV providers is not as simple as changing cola brands or brands of socks.  There is research to be done beforehand.  Maybe I'm in the minority here but I got accounts on both the UverseUsers and U-Talk forums before I switched and read up on it. 

Yes there is a limit of 4 watched / being recorded streams but as has been pointed out, shows that are on your DVR can be watched and that does not count against your streams.  With Comcast and only one DVR, I could only watch / record 2 "streams," so UV is much better in that regard.  Direct would love you back and the $10-15 monthly each fees for all of their boxes.

Sorry but you aren't getting too much sympathy, here.  We are a helpful lot here but your situation is similar to you buying a 4 seat Ford Focus for a family of 6 and then getting mad at Ford that the car is not bigger.  Good luck.